20 UNDER 20
TLD HER: 20 QUESTIONS
Age: 20
Relationship Status: in a relationship
Occupation: student, medical tech, and small business owner
Income: 15-20k
Astrological Sign: Pisces
What is the most important part of your daily routine?
Staying on track with my self-care routine (daily affirmations, time to drink coffee, slowly waking up, and getting ready).
What is your current happiness most dependent on?
Money, although I wish it weren’t so important to me, I spend way too much time comparing myself and my situation to others and wondering when I’ll be “financially comfortable”.
What do you wish you were less reliant on?
Also, money. I would love to have the freedom to travel and see the world without stressing about daily expenses. Seeing my bank account go down gives me so much anxiety.
When do you question yourself?
When I start to overthink!! Then I question everything.
What is something that has positively impacted how you perceive your self-worth?
My boyfriend. He’s made me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world, no matter what I look like.
What is something you have forgiven yourself for?
Being too hard on myself. I hold myself to such high standards, and it’s exhausting.
What is something you have forgiven someone else for?
My parents for passing down generational trauma. I’ve realized they’ve just done their best with what they knew at the time. Also realizing that I can’t expect someone to heal if they don’t see what’s broken.
How do you ground/center yourself?
Trying to be present. Doing yoga, breathwork, acknowledging, and feeling my emotions.
What is one thing that helped you through your most difficult time?
Ahhhh! I can’t pick one, both my boyfriend and my cat. They’ve literally been there to cry on, healing my heart when they didn’t break it.
Have you ever felt like the best version of yourself? When?
Yes. When I’m confident and teaching a workshop for my small business, or helping others.
What is something you fundamentally disagree with?
So much. Big pharma, treatment of animals, lack of access to mental health, and the work-life balance in the U.S.
What is something you know for sure?
No one actually knows what they’re doing in life; we’re all just trying to make it.
What are three of your non-negotiables in romantic relationships?
1. Loyalty
2. Trust
3. Reliability
When do you feel most comfortable in your own skin?
When I have a bomb ass outfit on, makeup, and nails done. Nobody can stop me.
Have you ever been in awe of something/someone? When?
Yes. I am obsessed with Demi Lovato and got the chance to meet her. That woman is perfection in person!
What is the best (physical/material) gift you have ever received?
I just got the most beautiful black obsidian ring from my boyfriend. So, at the moment, that!
What is one thing you wish you had said ‘yes’ to in the past?
Going away to college. I regret staying home. I feel like I’ve missed out on so much.
What is one thing you will always say ‘no’ to in the future?
Anytime someone says I’m too much or too strong and wants me to tone it down. Absolutely not!
What do you believe is your most attractive quality?
My knowledge. I try to use what I know for good and to help.
What/who do you want to be when you grow up?
A family/marriage therapist, animal advocate, wife, mom (I think)?
BONUS: Tell me something good.
I made it through this school semester!